You know how the easiest time to fall asleep is in the morning right after you hit snooze on your alarm?
What if you could create that feeling when you actually needed it the most?
If you don't fall asleep within 30 min, trying to stay in bed so it will happen is setting yourself up for failure anyways, so don't let that happen. What kind of sleep would you get anyways? Even if it does happen, it'll be light, fragmented sleep, and you'll be awake 2 hrs later and even more miserable.
Instead, put into practice a meditation or other tactic that you need to practice, and instead of trying to fall asleep... or even trying to stay awake, but really, subconsciously, STILL trying to fall asleep whether you realize that's what you're really wanting or not... go to the next level and set an actual alarm to go off at the end of your practice.
If trying to stay awake really puts you to sleep, then setting an alarm is the ultimate way to set yourself straight that staying awake is really the goal.
This requires 2 goals to be achieved - one within the timer, and one to follow the timer. For me, it's to have a legit meditation session, and the timer is the way to dedicate as much as possible into a 5, 10, or 15 min integral and be interrupted at the end to see if I achieved the goal or ended up getting lost in my head.
The SECOND goal of a SECOND, NON-TIMED (or second timed, third non-timed... etc.. END goal is non-timed) practice to follow up the main one. You know, so I'm both (A) Not going to go back to trying to fall asleep and (B) So that I also don't keep getting woken up by alarms all night.
When I legitimately make the mediation my goal and set a 5 min alarm, then something *MAGICAL* happens.
I get the EARLY MORNING SNOOZE AFFECT on my ability to fall asleep. When the alarm goes off and it's on to the second goal, I feel like I'm snoozing the alarm a little bit.
If it doesn't, that's good too - it means I'm achieving my goal of staying awake. Which means the human nature is going to kick in and start fighting me soon - I just need to set another alarm or two to trigger it.
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