8:30p - 11:30p -- Date with Kristi + posts once getting home.
Well, fucking mad props on going on a tinder date within 24 fucking hours of attraction week beginning. The pride and power here is much greater than you know.
Sure, some things to be learned here, but the majority is just going to be the experience itself, the muscle memory and comfort zone stretching of putting what you learned into practice.
You matched the customer as best you could. It was never going to happen with that one. Being genuine, honest, and brave out the gate with your communication may appear to be punished at first, however the truth is it sets you up to learn the most valuable lessons instead of the wrong ones.
Instead of thinking "how did I not close that kiss?" it's obvious that you told her outright you weren't what she was looking for and you can instead focus on the lesson of "maybe using 'hey' as your tinder opener and asking relationship-type questions isn't going to reel in the kind of women you are after".
Also, it grows your comfort zone of being honest and straightforward to pursue only what you REALLY want -- after all, if you can argue with an abused, serious, A-type personality on her philosophy to defend your position... you can hold your ground with anyone. She makes saying that stuff to Steph look like a cake walk.
Very glad you did it, very good growth and progression, very good status gain and return to glory. Fuck man, you got a tinder date out the goddamn gate... you just gotta learn how to up your tinder game a little (which is NOT hard, you're a salesman, remember?) and your escalation game on dates and you will be rock solid.
There is no downside. Remember that. I might be even more tired tomorrow and not gotten anywhere with girl #1, but this is a solid net gain. Remember your true path is happiness and any dates for you right now are giant steps forward. Good job.
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