The Relationship Troll: BEWARE THE CIRCLES
"It's her doing this to me."
Reprogram: If you would be large enough to embrace and let go of your thoughts -- seeing them as just thoughts -- you'd have no problem as long as she's meeting the minimum requirements.
You've got to remember that you actually get kind of crazy.
The "society rules of relationships" aren't real.
It's something that you've made up based on your understanding of observing other relationships.
50% of marriages fail. If you go off what society has to say, you're just flipping a coin.
If you really get smart and just embrace the laws of attraction, you'll be able to build and create an amazing relationship.
But if you get all crazy and base your relationship on what you perceive to be "how things ought to be" based on other people's relationships... it WON'T WORK.
Every relationship is unique. Communication, understanding, and trust are the common denominators. Use what you know about yourself, the laws of attraction, and her to build your own.
When you find yourself going crazy from hereon out, remember it's not her, it's you. It's this crazy person troll living in your head. The path to truth is your understanding of you, her, and attraction. Get back to that if you need it. Otherwise just embrace and let those dumb thoughts go.
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TMW: DO YOUR ACCOUNTING! That's your CDH
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