Saturday, August 27, 2016

Happiness and Degrees of Freedom

Happiness has many ingredients.  Here are some of the biggest:

Degrees of Freedom:
1. Time
2. Money
3. Women

TIME is tied to both money and women.

Do you need to trade your time for money?  Even if it's on autopilot, SOME time will always be required.  The goal is to make that trade as stacked as possible.

How much time does your woman/women require, and how much do you want to give her?  The goal is for the time you want to give her/them as close to her/their required amount as possible -- if they need too much, it's best to let them go... if they require far less than you want to give, you need more women or a different partner.

MONEY gives you the ability to do what you want.  "What you want" should be things that add to your happiness.  The goal should be to have the money to do the things that actually add to your happiness, and the balance is between money -> happiness and time -> money.

WOMEN are a huge contribution to happiness.  The goal should be to have at least one that you are incredibly close to that has your back no matter what... and the other goal should be to be with as many women as necessary to have all your needs met.  The goal is to have an open relationship and meet all of your needs.

Being honest with women about this will be rewarded with the freedom to have as many women as you need balanced with the time you are willing to invest into them.

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Just as my 18 year point I realized my goal in life was automatic income (the gold standard of freedom with time and money), at 28 I want to pledge to master attraction and open relationships, so I have all the freedom to give whatever time I want to whichever women I want.

Don't get me wrong.  Some women require more of my time.  And if they mean enough to me, they will get it.  My goal is to find the balance that will make me the happiest instead of getting locked into the standard marriage model that 90-95% of men participate in... even though none of them are entirely happy with it.


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